I remember my toilet woes from the days when I got married and went to stay in my in-laws
home which was in Byndoor, a tiny village on coastal Karnataka. Being brought
up in a home which followed bathroom and toilet ethics, it was tough for me to
adjust to a place where there were no rules for bathroom or toilets. Are there
any bathroom and toilet rules and ethic you may ask in amazement, but once you
give a thought to it, you will realize every home follows some of their own
rules and ethics regarding bathroom/toilet behavior.
Check out which of these are relevant to your homes.
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Do not knock on toilet door. When they are done
they will come out.
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Wash your hands thoroughly after using toilet.
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Clean up your mess.
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Do not waste water.
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Do not talk when you are pooping or peeing.
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Do not hover around when others are using the
toilet.
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Respect privacy.
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Always lock the toilet door. You may embarrass
others by exposing your awkward position to them.
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Do not dribble on the floor.
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Flush toilets after use properly.
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Be fully dressed before walking out of toilet.
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Toilet walls are not for your creative
expressions. Leave them alone.
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Make sure you have water/toilet paper clean
yourself before starting your business.
My elder sister was in charge of our bathroom and toilet
Etiquettes. She accepted no excuses. For me it was great shock to be in a place
where people did not follow any toilet etiquettes. The first time I saw a woman
walking out of the toilet holding her sari high and lowering it as she walked
back to her home; I was disgusted. I also ended up walking in on people pooping
or peeing because they did not lock the door. The annoyance of people calling
you, knocking on the door or pacing outside the toilet when you have business to
do is intolerable for those who have seen better conditions. At times I would be welcomed by a load of
crap left there without being flushed, or dots of urine spread around on toilet
floor. I hated cleaning other people’s mess, but I could not do anything about
it. It was just the way of life over there.
I could not wait to get back to my home and Pee in Peace.
Though we take it for granted, having a clean toilet where you can cleanse your
body of toxins is a great luxury. As I complained about the annoying toilet
conditions, I wondered how it would be for people to have no toilets to perform
simple function which cannot wait.
Girls like little Babli who have to use deserted places are
not just uncomfortable, but also at risk of being attacked by rapists or
molesters. If a change in toilet behaviors can be so annoying, I wonder how bad
it is not to have toilets at all!
The danger of using open spaces for toilets for girls hit
the nation when two young girls were audaciously attacked: raped and hanged
from a tree, when they went out to perform simple bodily functions. They had
gone missing on the night of May 27, when they went out to relieve themselves. Going
out in pairs for safety did not work for them. How safe is it for women and
girls to venture under the cloak of darkness before sunrise or after sunset to
relieve themselves?
So far we had seen human dignity being lost; now it is their
lives as well. We cannot blame our ever rising population for lack of toilets
for everyone, since we see China has more than a billion people, but according
to WHO only 1 out of every 100 people defecates out in the open; whereas in
India, 1 out of every 2 people use open spaces for toilets. This is the highest
rate in the world.
Another issue with open toilets is the health hazard
associated with it. Leaving bodily wastes in open contaminates food and water,
causing cholera or other diseases that kill 200,000 children in India; in addition,
it shunts the cognitive and mental development of children like little Babli.
Dr. Bindeshwar Pathak of non-government organization Sulabh
International says only 30% of Indians have access to clean and safe toilets. Why
our nation with so many exotic places of worship has ignored the basic needs of
human?
Domex has started an initiative
to provide toilets for girls like Babli under their initiative known as Toilet
for Babli, where
"You
Click Domex Contributes". You can bring about the change in the lives of
millions of kids, thereby showing your support for the Domex Initiative. All
you need to do is “click” on the “Contribute Tab” on
www.domex.in and Domex will contribute Rs.5 on your
behalf to eradicate open defecation, thereby helping kids like Babli live a
dignified life. Let us make life better,
safe and hygienic for Babli.
Your click can make the difference.
